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Icebreaker questions for Valentine’s Day
- What is your go-to Valentine’s Day sweet treat?
- Do you decorate your house or office with Valentine’s day decorations?
- If you were a Valentine’s card, what would you say?
- If you were a box of chocolates, which chocolate would you be?
- What is your go-to night in rom-com?
- What is your favorite flower?
- What is your favorite chocolate?
- What is the best Valentine’s Day you ever had?
- What is the worst Valentine’s Day you ever had?
- Do you love or hate Valentine’s Day?
- Which celebrity would you most like to be your Valentine?
- Have you ever had or ever been a secret admirer?
- Have you ever handmade a gift for someone or Valentine’s Day?
- Who was your first crush? (Real or fictional?)
- What is your favorite love story in a non-romantic movie?
- What is the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?
- Have you ever dated someone your friends or family did not like?
- What is the worst first date you have ever had?
- Have you ever been on a blind date or set someone else up on a blind date?
- Have you ever been serenaded or serenaded someone?
- Who is your favorite fictional couple?
Valentine’s icebreaker questions for single people
- You’ve decided to have a self-care night in. What’s for dinner?
- Who is your favorite person to spend Valentine’s day with?
- You and your friends are having a single’s night dance party. What are the top three music artists on your playlist?
- If you were to make a valentine’s day cocktail or mocktail, what would be the ingredients?
- What is your favorite way to spend Valentine’s Day?
- What furry friend best represents love to you?
- What do you wish people knew or understood about being single?
- What is the best part about spending Valentine’s Day single?
- Have you ever faked getting engaged at a restaurant to score a free dessert? Would you?
- Write a one-sentence love note to yourself.
- Who is most likely to send you a Valentine’s present?
- What is a relationship dealbreaker for you?
- Name one thing that’s more fun to do single than as part of a couple?
- Which rom-com best friend is the best?
- Share your favorite breakup song.
Valentine’s icebreaker questions for people in relationships
- Where was your favorite Valentine’s day date?
- What is your favorite love song to dance to together?
- If you won an all-expenses paid couple vacation package, where would it be and what would be included?
- What do you think your partner’s love language is?
- What is the most thoughtful gift your partner has given you?
- You come home to find your significant other has made you a 5-course meal of your favorite foods. What’s on the menu?
- What celebrity would play your significant other in a movie?
- What love song ballad describes your relationship the best?
- What is your favorite memory of me?
- What surprised you the most about me so far?
- How long did your last relationship last?
- How long was your longest romantic relationship?
- What is your favorite thing to do with me?
- What is something that you only do while you are in a relationship?
- What might your ex say is your best quality?
- What is the most selfless thing you have done for a partner?
- What is the silliest argument you have had with a partner?
- When or how did you know you wanted to date me?
- When was the first time you knew you loved me?
Funny Valentine’s icebreaker questions
- If Cupid gifted you his bow for 24 hours, what would you do with it?
- What is your go-to pickup line?
- What is your silliest date idea?
- Can you draw your Valentine’s Day crush in 10 seconds or less?
- What cheesy romantic comedy best represents your love life?
- Finish the poem– roses are red, violets are blue……
- What if they designed packs of Valentine’s cards for adults like they do for school children?
- Have you ever had a meet cute or a rom-com moment? What was it?
- What is the most embarrassing thing you did because of a crush?
- What is the most embarrassing crush you are willing to admit?
- What is the funniest bio you have ever seen on a dating site?
- What inanimate object would you marry?
- Meatloaf once sang, “I would do anything for love, but I won’t do that.” What do you think that “that” is?
Valentine’s Day would you rather questions
- Would you rather have a romantic dinner in or enjoy a night out on the town?
- Would you rather receive a bouquet of flowers or a stuffed animal?
- Would you rather get dressed up or wear something casual on your Valentine date?
- Would you rather go salsa dancing or ballroom dancing?
- Would you rather buy stor-ebought Valentine’s Day decorations or make them homemade?
- Would you rather have a lively group date with friends or keep it one-on-one.
- Would you rather have Adele or John Legend serenade your date night?
- Would you rather eat a sloppy joe or saucy wings on your first date?
- Would you rather have an expensive store-bought gift or a sentimental homemade one?
- Would you rather get dumped on Valentine’s Day or have to spend Valentine’s Day with someone you hate?
Valentine’s Day this or that questions
- A box of chocolates or sweet tarts?
- A home-cooked meal or a fancy restaurant?
- Romantic comedy or an Action movie?
- Fancy brunch or casual dinner?
- Wine and cheeseboards or pasta and cocktails?
- Watch the sunrise or watch the sunset?
- Go to the zoo or for a hike?
- Go to an art museum or the aquarium?
- Candlelit dinner or moonlit dinner?
- Outdoor Movie or theatrical Production?
- Heart-shaped pizza or heart-shaped waffles?
- Pink or red?
Valentine’s Day questions for students
- What song would you like to be serenaded with in the middle of class by the Valentine’s singing telegram?
- What materials are you using to make a homemade valentines card for your crush?
- Which 90’s movie would you choose as the theme for your school’s annual Valentine’s Day dance?
- If you received a cute stuffed animal from your school crush, what are you naming it?
- Would you rather spend your lunch money on a whole bunch of heart-shaped candies or a whole heart-shaped pizza?
- Who was the last person who told you “I love you?”
- If you could marry anyone in the world, who would you choose?
- Would you dress up like Cupid and go out in public for $100?
- If you could design a Valentine’s Day card, what would be on it?
- Name five things you love.
- What is love, to you?
- What is your favorite song about love?
- If you were to design a dating site, what would it be like?
- What is your favorite Valentine’s Day food?
Icebreaker questions about love and dating
- What is your dream first date?
- Where is your favorite spot to have a romantic picnic?
- When is a moment you have felt the happiest?
- When is a time you have most felt loved?
- If you could go on a honeymoon anywhere in the world, where would you go?
- How do you best receive love?
- How do you best express your love?
- It’s your 50th anniversary. Who are the top 5 celebrities coming to celebrate with you and your boo?
- What is your love language?
- Would you ever consider an arranged marriage? Why or why not?
- Have you ever found a partner through online dating?
- What do you think is the most important quality in a partner?
- What do you most look for in a relationship?
- If you could find out everyone who ever had a crush on you, would you?
- Was there ever a time when someone was flirting with you and you didn’t realize it until it was too late?
- Which relationship or date do you wish you could do over?
- If you had a time machine, what romantic warning would you give your younger self?